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Why We Procrastinate and How to Get Things Done
Your brain’s number one job is to keep you alive. One of the ways it does that is by conserving energy. Conserving energy often looks...
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May 16, 20222 min read


Transform It or Transmit It
Happy Mother’s Day. I hope you received all the love you deserve and more yesterday. One day a year to honor all the sacrifice,...
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May 9, 20222 min read


Celebrating You
My birthday was last week. My husband wished me happy birthday bright and early, then gently asked if I felt like I was 54. My answer was...
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May 2, 20222 min read


Why Gossip Feels So Good
You know that feeling you get in a good gossip session? It’s a little energizing. You feel connected to the person you’re talking to....
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Apr 25, 20222 min read


Worried?
According to Brene Brown, in her newest book, The Atlas of the Heart, “Worry is described as a chain of negative thoughts about bad...
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Apr 18, 20222 min read


How to Feel Good
I’ve spent the last couple of blog posts talking about how to feel bad. I hope I’ve conveyed how important it is to feel and process our...
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Apr 4, 20222 min read


How to Feel Bad
People often say to me, “You’re so calm.” And they’re mostly right. But they also wrongly conclude that it’s because my life is easy. I...
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Mar 28, 20223 min read


When Life Feels Hard
I’m menopausal. I don’t sleep well. I have chronic neck pain that sometimes leads to migraines. I have a big family. I have five adult...
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Mar 21, 20222 min read


What You’re Really Afraid Of
What if I fail? Why is the thought of failure so scary? I don’t think it’s the actual outcome of failure that we are afraid of. I think...
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Mar 14, 20222 min read


Are You Living in Scare City?
When you think of your future, do you look forward to it from a feeling of peace and ease, or do you fear it and expect the worst? Many...
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Mar 7, 20223 min read


To Love and Be Loved
Today we celebrate love. Who doesn’t want more love in their life? It’s what you were created for. To love and be loved. To be seen,...
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Feb 14, 20222 min read


Divorce isn’t an Option
I used to believe divorce wasn’t an option with all my heart. And then it was. And it was devastating. I believed it fiercely during my...
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Feb 7, 20222 min read


No one told you…
It’s the last day of January. I thought I’d check-in and see how those New Year Resolutions are going? Research shows that only 9% of...
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Jan 31, 20222 min read


Pretending
I teach my clients that there are only four things they ever have control over: Their thoughts, their feelings, their actions, and their...
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Jan 24, 20222 min read


Bored?
Do you ever feel bored? Typically we hate it, and we avoid it. But what if boredom is an opportunity to create an extraordinary life....
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Jan 17, 20222 min read


Your Word for the Year
Having a word for the year is a trend that seems to be catching on. But what’s the point? How does choosing a word serve us? Allow me to...
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Jan 10, 20223 min read


How Can I Help?
As we start the new year, I want to thank you for allowing me to share my 2021 thoughts with you. I want you to know that I don’t take...
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Jan 3, 20222 min read


Happy Old Year!
I hope you’re looking forward to the new year. I am. New is exciting for our brain. Let me give you a tip on starting your new year off...
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Dec 27, 20212 min read


You Will Never Have This Again
Wow. Only two weeks left in 2021. It seems like the years go by faster and faster. Time is becoming more and more precious. How do you...
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Dec 20, 20212 min read


A Gift for You
Psychologist Abraham Maslow is best known for his 1943 Theory of Motivation which has easily withstood the test of time. This theory...
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Dec 13, 20212 min read
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